In the NFL, certain positions display more arrogance than others. The “skill” positions on offense seem to dominate, possibly because they score the touchdowns and are therefore most obvious to fans. Quarterbacks are less likely to be obnoxiously arrogant, as they are only effective if they possess strong leadership skills as well as a powerful arm.
But it is the wide receiver position where outlandish behavior is tolerated, even expected. Why wide receivers? Being on the receiving end of the most spectacular plays feeds their ego (like salesmen), and their distance downfield from the bulk of the violence gives them a distorted sense of the realities of the game (like software gurus).
Though teams routinely win Superbowls with good–rather than great–wide receivers, mature superstar wide receivers are rare treasures. Interestingly, they are often good rather than great athletes who excel due to intangibles, rather than the athletic wonders.
Successful organizations, like winning teams, require emotional maturity from all employees, but the standards for various roles differ. Emotional balance and decorum should be benchmarked relative to the standards of high performers in their function, not a middle-of-the-road or wishful standard.
Sales people will be rambunctious; equity analysts will be arrogant. To some extent, these characteristics are inherent in the nature of their jobs, and are sometimes what you pay them to project to the market. Moreover, high performers are of their nature somewhat insecure, and prone to acting out.
Certain roles, even entire industries, are more likely to attract individuals confident to the point of egotism. After a meeting between a software executive and an industry analyst, the executive observed pensively: “You know, he’s not very arrogant for an analyst.”
Winning NFL teams seek high performers who are grown up by NFL standards, and successful corporations should hire executives who are well adjusted by the standard of fast track executives. Both groups are substantially different from society’s average.
In the corporate world, talented individuals in traditionally lower key roles like logistics or accounting may sometime seem “too loud” compared to their peers. Their emotional makeup often makes them more appropriate for a sales role which, combined with their specialist experience, can turn them into superstar salesmen. These are hidden treasures, potentially the leaders of tomorrow.